Purpose

The world is full of people trying to find their way through this often confusing and cutting thing that is human life.
Having a purpose has become a faddish sort of thing,where in the ego gets filled with "oh yes look I am a concerned citizen of the world".Please know that I am aware that there are others that are so committed to serving others, I see no time for self.That seems strange to me too.
I think changing attitudes and behaviors start with you.I believe our purpose in life is to be kind,love and be compassionate.All of us.And its very easy to begin.
When I started practicing a more grateful life I had to talk to myself about smiling ,saying hello,being more there no matter who Im talking to.I have made friends with a lot of cashiers and gas station workers and more.I am in the midst of possibly taking a good job with a family owned catering biz who are willing to negotiate.I was interviewed while their daughter sat on his lap!SO real!so whats needed here on earth ,start being who you are instead of what your ego says you are.Ego is the robber of all happiness and contentment and is not needed.Its a very ancient word that was really meant for battle and protection.
My sister and I spoke of purpose just yesterday(which inspired this blog,thanks sis!)
She has two daughters I adore and have written about.A friend was questioning her purpose....sorta like what will you do when the kids go.....STOP! IT! RAISING CHILDREN IS THE MOST IMPORTANT  PURPOSE YOU CAN HAVE!!.And she has years before they go....by no means done....and never will be .....parenting is a lifetime.
We concentrate on money and success in working life all the time.But we dont celebrate whats important with all of us,care,kindness,compassion ........all things apparent in my nieces.I have no doubt they will have happier lives because they have been taught how lucky they are to have the kind of home,education and love that lives in their family.......they are all a gift to me in my search for whats real and whats not.When Im with them I feel loved........something that got lost in my upbringing even tho there was no doubt my parents did love me,it got lost in commotion and their own marital problems.I cant stress enough how important it is to not argue or bring your problems to your children........"it changes who they are" Im living proof.And my struggle continues daily to be graceful and loving in all situations.Next time you are denouncing a worker while your in line in your head "Oh this dumb person,whats their problem" Remember you dont know them or anything about them,who are you to judge their situation.When you get to them maybe say "how are you"or"your having a rough day arnt you?".........................
Its your "purpose".